People often associate self-love with narcissism. They devalue themselves in order to avoid this sin. Modesty is a beautiful virtue and so is kindness. However, loving yourself is the most beautiful virtue of all. To know that you are worthy of divinity. To know that you are divinity. That you are everything and nothing at the same time. Without self-love it is impossible to help others. We help others to help ourselves and we help ourselves so that we maybe able to help others.